Wow, just like how my W uses our little kids to pull me back over and over. She knows how I'll always put their needs above my issues with her.
I understand your conflict about this. If she just needed you to act as a father here, she wouldn't have laced her e-mail with "I need you", "I'm aching to see you", "I love you", etc. This is about her. If you feel you should take some action with her to address the situation with your SS, then definitely do it, but you could make it clear to her this is about HIM, not HER.
