Stay the course. You know you don't want to live that life. And he isn't listening to you. It's not taking one for the team to sacrifice your being. That's not a partnership.
He is treating you like an object, like property. That's not a marriage. Only you can stop that. You are miserable now, but you are going to break the cycle. if you back down, you are going to be miserable for a long time.
