Great, more drama. Got an email from the wife today telling me that SS has gotten his GF pregnant. Remember how he cancelled his wedding a few weeks back and has no job, etc? My SS has failed to tell me that in our conversations and apparently the wife found out from her ex about this.

She wrote the following:

John, if I ever needed you it’s now. If we can just talk for a little while, it will make me feel so much better. I understand I’ve hurt you very deeply and I wish I could take it all back and undo it. I can only try my damnedest to make it up to you if you will let me.

I am aching to see you and hold you. I am so sorry for everything. I love you and I miss you. You are the love of my life and I fear I’ve lost you forever.

How do I respond to that? I feel bad but hey the two events are not related. I don't want to be sucked back in. I'm not trying to be a jerk but what do I say? Call your BF?


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!