Help. My husband of nineteen years told me he was unhappy and we've grown apart and he doesn't think he wants our marriage anymore. Last week I found out he is having an affair. He is not sorry for this and feels very justified in having this relationship because we grew apart.
He wants to take things slowly, meaning he is not wanting to move out or even sleep in another bed. I have asked him to leave but he still asks if he can stay. He has refused to stop this relationship. He went out of town for business Monday, and i asked him not to come home. Today, on his way home he asked me to pick him up from the airport. He didn't say anything about me not wanting him to come home.
I talked with my coach yesterday who told me I should let him stay in the house, but how can I when he won't give the other woman up. I feel like an idiot. He is getting his cake and eating it too.
Please HELP me because I want to tell him that as long as he is in this other relationship, he cannot come home. Am I right? Please HELP!!!
