that's what I'm saying...my H can be in a bad mood now and I really just don't care. I'll avoid him if STRONGER feels like it, not the other way around. I'll talk to him about whatever I want (but not R talks) and he'll just have to sit there and listen or chime in, whatever.
H's moods no longer dictate mine. Simple.
I'm doing that outwardly, but the constant worry is still tearing me up inside.
