BUNS, ABS, AND HEART OF STEEL #3

[ACJ]

T I've said many times that our sitches are scarily similar. Your H is now doing exactly as mine has been for last 12 months. We got our final court order yesterday and his manipulation of the children cost me an extra £10k.

Peace my H continued (and still does) to spend and spend even after he took a massive pay cut (seemingly voluntarily). The money isn't still there as I have seen his accounts due to being in court. The only way it will be is if he has managed to hide it somewhere and not declare it. Debt does not worry these men. They just expect thier Xs to pay for it so they don't have to suffer the consequences.