I think its the initial attraction that draws you in and the love is built on top of that over many years. All of the things I have loved about her become a part of her over many years. When I look at her 20 years after we met, in her in sweats with bed head I still see the witty, fragile, beautiful woman I fell in love. Those things have become a part of her. I see her beauty from the inside out. Sure I can look close and see a few wrinkles but it's still the beautiful woman I fell in love with.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09