LOL! It's all very confusing for sure and the problem is that you're letting him drive. Why would you let the most emotionally challenged person in the relationship drive it? Kick him out of the seat.
I'm feeling rather emotionally challenged myself!
But you're right. I need to stop letting my mood/feelings be dictated by his. I've done this through the history of our relationship. I can have a great day up until I get home and if he's in a bad mood, it all goes to hell. On the other hand, the worst day at work suddenly becomes a good day if I come home and he's in a good mood (rare, unfortunately). It never seems to go the other way. I can't cheer him up if I'm in a good mood and he's not and I can't bring him down if he's in a good mood and I'm not.
