I wonder how many guys would say that they fell in love with and/or stay in love with their wives as a result of a balance or healthy tension between have and can't have? She's yours but there's a part of her that's always just out of reach.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09