Is this thread about what makes you aroused? Or what makes you attracted enough to really invest in a relationship.
Yes, there are lots of objectively attractive people in the world. But one isn't "attracted" to them all. Attraction separates / dscriminates / chooses from among them.
From my POV, attraction has nothing to do with wanting to work on a relationship. That's totally different. That question is, "Why do people commit to relationships," not "Men, what qualities make a woman attractive to you?"
And "arousal" is still another thing - not every person one finds attractive and dates, for example, is arousing. "There just wasn't a spark" - a not-uncommon report after a date with someone one found "attractive."
