H was home an hour early from work yesterday. I kept things light, asked him how work went. Not well he said but I didn`t pursue the topic. The mediation people would have contacted him yesterday to confirm my registering for an appointment. Hasn`t made H any happier.
He snooped through my internet files this am. Just found where I`ve been looking at fb. That`ll get him worried since he never saw me there before. Thankfully, db files deleted.
He`s still curious about me then. And I`m staying cool and looking good. I`m gearing up for separation though. He may need to have his ass out of here before he truly realises what he`s given up-that`s if he ever does.
He`s gone this pm. At least he told me this time he was off on a golfing trip.
Oh, and his former OW`s former H contacted me yesterday. Basically to vent about his ex. Haven`t heard from him in a year but he`s a lesson in how not to separate;just so full of anger, kids tossed between the two of them, court battles etc.
Whatever happens, as long as I keep my cool and keep my dignity, it will make things easier.
