Been out of town for the last two days on a job - no net access.
The thing I've been doing for myself is pouring myself into two things I've let slack off for the last few years. I've been practicing guitar (and performing) and working on finishing that novel I said I would write.
As for going out and having a good time at parties and the like - well, I'll warm up to that. I've been to a few church socials. There's not a whole lot to do up here that doesn't cost more money than I have (I would have liked to do a recent triathalon up here, but the entry fee was quite steep).
I'll go out more and more.
In other news, her FIL e-mailed me to let me know that he misspoke on the phone when he said it would be okay to visit the kids, even though I can't stay in their house. He told me it was only okay if I gave them plenty of advance notice and asked for permission.
I'm hoping a lawyer can use some of this. They've basically kidnapped my kids and are holding them for ransom. Sunday felt like those scenes in the movies where the kidnappers let the parents talk to the kids for a few moments, just to string them along.
Last edited by lonelywolf; 09/09/0906:35 PM.
Me: 35 W: 31 D10, S7, S2, S11 months M: 11 years Tricked into separation. In Last Resort.
My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053