Yeah, I talk a good talk to you guys because I'm trying to convince myself. Thank you.
I know my faults. They are big. I know I'm not the most together person out there. I come from a way more f***ed up family than most. I have a lot of baggage. I have a hard time remembering my value. And that is what we are working on, right? Feeling our inner value.
My H says he still loves me and 95% is great. He says it's the 5% that is so bad it's become unbearable and he "won't stand for it anymore". So I'm trying to look at the 5%. I'm trying to show him change in those areas.
so today I'm trying to remember that he loves me and thinks 95% is great! Those are good odds! You need to remember your value too. Make a list. EB is a valuable H because....and list them. don't focus on OP. You are the best because...your value is...the things your W loves about you are...and be those things. Feel them. They are already inside you.
