I tell her this but she says that she does share and does accept.
Why don't you believe her?
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First, I always feel like she uses double standards. I feel as though she holds me to a different standard than herself.
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Second, I feel like even though I am responsible for probably 75% of the problems in the relationship, she holds me accountable for 100% and never truly accepts her part.
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I feel like for years I've just wanted to have her share some of it with me.
Lot of feeling going on. It's good to have feelings, do you understand why you feel the way you do? While women want men who "feel" they don't want a man who lets his emotions lead him. What do you think she meant when she said "she does share and accept" ?
Using words like always and never are signs of pessismistic thinking. Google - Martin Seligman and "Learned Optimism"
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
