I'm new wondering if this works...

[BigJohn]

my H's OW looked NOTHING like me. We couldn't be more opposite.

So H seemed annoyed and said "Well, if you think about it, Stronger is more attractive."

Then OW starts in on faces. "Who has a prettier face?" Apparently she didn't learn and pushed again, so H said "Stronger."

Stronger, I've got the same problem and I bet you do too Hope. That seems to be a common theme in As, where the wayward S "affairs down". Makes no sense to me since you'd think if you weren't happy with your current sitch you'd want to "upgrade" to another person- in every respect.

Also goes to show you, the OP's show their ugly sides....you just have to let them.

Agreed, problem is our WASs are so fogged out that it takes A LOT of ugliness from the OP to make any kind of negative impression. Just considering my own sitch, OM is a complete a$$hole and flip flops on my W between being nice/not so nice, eggs on then threatens my BIL along with a lot of other B.S. and my W is just oblivious to it all- OM walks on water as far as she is concerned.