Hope...that was a great post.

Thank you.

Do you have any suggestions on how I can be supportive without coming off as trying to "fix" her? That's been a real issue for me. Anything that I do to try to be understanding or supportive seems to come off that way to her.

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.