Therefore, I don't understand your contention that it is somehow "worldly" to believe that your wife may choose to persist/be allowed to persist in her current choices.
Saying that she is not coming back is what I was disputing. I believe she will someday at some point. I just don't know when. It is that wait that is frusturating sometimes. Which I know is why you get a life so you aren't focused on your circumstances.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...