We LBSs are absolutely going through our own midlife "transitions," looking at ourselves in the mirror long and hard and deciding what stays and what goes and what changes and what is important and what isn't. We are just doing it in a different way, without having a tantrum and throwing those we love under the bus.
The SMART ones do that. : ) I AM a better person for this, and I do not see how I would have become this person without going through this.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK