Wow. I can't believe I made it through all 35 pages of this.
It's good to seem some of the WAS side of things and that you were able to get past that and see what you were losing. I'm glad that you didn't let foolish pride stand in the way of letting your wife know how you feel. I believe it takes much more courage to do that than to just move on the with D and hope you get over it.
It gives me (and I'm sure many others) hope. Hopefully your wife will come around to the same realization that you've had.
