OK, I'm not a guy, but in my dating years I noticed guys either seemed to be leg women or chest women. Maybe that's just the college years though; I'm not sure...What was funny, since I'm chesty is lots of guys that liked chesty women liked me, but my 2 long-term Rs were with guys that were leg women.
I also noticed my friends that were more desperate or stalkerish didn't date as much. I mean they would be really confident, strong women but kind of like stalking or gifting guys all the time, and the guys would run in the other direction. So that's maybe what doesn't attract men.