Hi Carlos- Your mention of H's mindset reminded me of one other thing from last night. He notices my detachment because he said that I looked like I was already checked out of the M (i.e. looking for apartments) and was trying to push him into being the bad guy to say that he wants out, especially with the recent no-sex boundary besides. I told him that it wasn't meant as a punishment, but something I needed in order to get my thoughts and feelings clear in my head. He saw it as just something to hurt him.
