Thanks A&K. I'm going to give this some serious thought. I feel like you're on to something here. In my conversation with W yesterday I brought up something that's been a bit of a recurring theme for me. Actually there are two themes. First, I always feel like she uses double standards. I feel as though she holds me to a different standard than herself. Second, I feel like even though I am responsible for probably 75% of the problems in the relationship, she holds me accountable for 100% and never truly accepts her part. I feel like for years I've just wanted to have her share some of it with me. I tell her this but she says that she does share and does accept.


AKA: "Ben the school teacher"
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Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20
Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08
My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09
W w/OM 6/09-11/09

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