Yep, its not so much these particular shares, its that if we were to stay together we are going to need to talk through the whole area of finances in some detail.
As it was H called up today and suggested we could sell the existing shares, buy the new ones he wanted to (his prefered option) in my name (he listened and met my concerns) with us holding as 12 month option, (suggesting for today he considers we may have a future for 12 months, although likely to change completly tomorrow too!).
So a win win solution on a difficult topic, yet to be executed but feels like the door to us having a future together may have been opened again to just the smallest crack. We have a process that may help us to explore other topics down that path with H instead of me leading process (big 180)
I feel like I can now sit back and keep working on me again, but that I have got some of my needs met for the first time in ages.
I am sure the testing will continue on the smaller spending and other issues, thanks for the reminders.
