Gucci - I appreciate your honesty... I know what you said is the truth and I have been trying to do this however it is a slow process for me... I am afraid of pushing him even further away...
Hi S13,
It would seem like he can't get much further away, if he's gone this long with no contact, yes?
My suggestion would be -- if you get another shot at this with him -- to follow Gucci's advice and some of the others (including myself) who've advocated a tougher stance.
I think your husband feels like you'll be there waiting for him, if and when he does decide to contact you or come home.
