That is sage advice. I guess you can't post the name of that other website on here?
I recently found an anniversary card and V-day card I received from H in 2008 (so not that long ago) in a drawer I was cleaning out (not where I keep my "special" stuff so I think I was meant to find them at this point), and the sentiments written were NOT those of someone who had been unhappy for years in the marriage.
