What will make her important enough for him to prioritize her in ways that may feel like stretching or sacrificing but worth it?
What makes her more than just a woman among many available attentive attractive women?
There's no answer for this. There's as many answers as there are men (and the women to ask it).
This thread derives from @mindfull's thread, where a discussion was starting over messages she may or may not have received about her looks.
I used to be this guy: What will make her important enough for him to prioritize her in ways that may feel like stretching or sacrificing but worth it?
Now I'm not so sure I am anymore. So even there we have at least 2 answers -- then and now.