I'm sure I'm not as attractive as I have been to him in the past, but, hey, I've given birth to our two boys since then, and I've been heavier than this (pregnant and not pregnant), and he was just fine with it. My point with the weight loss is the lack of confidence "I" feel with it on me. It's hard to feel confident when everything you put on is snug. It's hard to feel desirable when you catch a glimpse of your profile and you suddenly have this belly. It's hard to be "ME" when I put a tank top on and the upper arms are a bit thick.
I'm not losing weight JUST to attract him again. I'm losing it be be ME again. I don't feel like, act like, MOVE LIKE, ME, with it on!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
