Attract is one thing but women want to know what makes a man want to step up and put energy into a relationship (once the sexual conquest is accomplished). What makes him want to be her man, carry some weight, put effort into a relationship etc...
What will make her important enough for him to prioritize her in ways that may feel like stretching or sacrificing but worth it?
What makes her more than just a woman among many available attentive attractive women?
