First off...Smiley..I like you...you're good, really good...
second....straight up and to the point...and mindfull you ain't gonna like what I have to say...
the simpliest reason he may have locked the door...
he may be done...and if he let's you take peeks, make comments, actaully touch him then he might be feeling he is leading you on on making you think that he wants to reconcile which would lead to guilt on his part...
see....it's pretty common..A WAS will separate themselves fromt he LBS over time..it will be gradual......you will notice they do things different..my ex did it..they all do..
1. they used to sit beside you on the couch, not you sit apart.. 2. they used to be in the same room with you, now they are in another room..off to themselves or with the kids. 3. they used to not be shy about their nakedness around you, now your lucky if you see them in their underwear.. 4. you used to share the bathroom when you got ready top go somewhere..now it's separate.. 5. you used to share the same bed, now you are sleeping apart
the list goes on and on..
the more you try to figure out the more you will becoem like a "dog chasing it's tail"
so stop...
Get a Life for yourself and stop worrying about the WAS..
