Originally Posted By: Dia
Wow, Thinker. Way to go. In particular, the text you put in blue? That could be describing me, my H and his mother. I get along just great with his father, but his mother thinks I am devil-spawn.


Thanks Dia

In my case it is both of my parents - each with their own complaints - feeding off of each other.

It has gotten to the point where my w is not comfortable visiting them, and from my Parents point of view it is worse.

The most recent "insult"

When I was at my parents house last weekend (with kids, but without Mrs. Thinker), S6 told my parents that their house was messy (it was - truth out of the mouth of babes). He later told my W the same thing over the phone. My parents overheard his side of the phone call.

They said nothing, but were supremely insulted.

Between them, they agreed that it must be because my W is prompting them in order to "turn the kids against them".

What!! Paranoid Much!!!

Again, I heard nothing from them. Not a word. Not a sign. Nothing but pleasant smiles.

But when I asked I heard from my sibling that my parents had already complained bitterly to them about it.

This has GOT to stop!!

Last edited by Thinker; 09/09/09 03:47 PM.

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