Stronger - BJ is awesome too. Sorry I keep saying awesome. I'm from California
Well I have deduced that she is in his D&D/role playing group. So I am learing about these games. He told me that I made him feel like he was stupid for being into it (in M pre-bomb) because I always dismissed it. I was the kind of person that had a lot of interests, art, acting, etc., and I just said "You do your thing and I'll do mine" I neglected his desire to share more things in our marriage. So here I am trying to show interest. WIth the added benefit that if I'm into these games I'm more competition with the OW.
Also, during M, he never showed any attraction to me physically either. I don't expect it now because I didn't receive that attention when M. It was a big problem. We both felt rejected by the other sexually but he never kissed me hello or goodbye, rarely if ever made moves on me. I shut down because I didn't feel he thought I was attractive. I realize now it has a lot to do with the way he is so nervous around girls and not comfortable with his own sexuality and I secretly hope that if he returns to me this OW has given him some more confidence in bed. I need to be ravished if he comes back. It's been like twice a year and neither of us were happy with it.
