Hello Kittyfish & Sandi2!

[BigJohn]

[quote=BigJohn] What is it about your posts that get the better of me Dday?

Well, all I can really say is that there are a lot of similarities in nearly everyone's stories on here, yours in dangerously close to mine, and I guess I'm just trying to feed in all the mistakes I made to maybe, just maybe help yours out, you know, kind of the pay it forward approach.

Dday,

I appreciate all of your feedback, especially since you have already been down the path I'm on. I feel like I'm doing pretty good managing my emotions right now. If things were to start going sideways I think I have a pretty good support system I can count on in addition to the aforementioned outlets.

I can't say what my R with my W will be should we get D. I'm sure it will eventually be amicable. But, I don't think we will be close if for no other reason than she disappointed me and our kids as a person on such a massive scale.

I agree that after a certain point, ranting looses it's value and it becomes a drag on your personal progress. I chose to blow off some of my excess steam here, particularly with regards to OM, since he is such a complete jerk off. I also agree with leaning on friends and family too much- gotta be a little careful or you will burn people out.

Thanks Dday.