Physical Attraction I think this varies widely from man to man. For me I go more for unique and exotic over sports illustrated. Sometimes she's aggressive and dominant, other times she's gentle and submissive.
Sexiness It's all about the aura and how she carries herself. She owns the world, she has bounce in her step. She's confident. She knows who she is.
Nurturing (not sure if this is the right word) She loves her family. Is a wonderful mother. Is loyal to and protects her family with unrelenting fierceness.
Tenderness/Caring (not sure of the label) Is feminine, vulnerable and warm. Makes me feel important and strong. Makes me want to lay down my jacket while she walks over a puddle or lay down my life to save her from a runaway bus.
Most of all its the combination of these things that attracts me to a woman. All rolled up into one package. Each working when it's supposed to like a well oiled machine.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09