I am very concerned about out kids. Neither one knows about her cutting her wrists. Let me clarify - she never broke the skin. I think it was more of a frustration thing than anything else. They both went to school today and seemed ok. I will spend time with them when they come home.
It's not that I am thinking of me (or us) before the kids, it's just that I consider this place to be mainly about divorce busting.
No, we are not in counseling. I plan on going myself. I will speak to the kids about them going today. As for wife, I doubt it, especially if I suggest it. She would automatically go against it. I may try to speak with her friend about getting her some help.
I will make sure I put tons of effort into the kids right now and will clearly tell my wife that if she is going to behave that way in front of the kids then I don't want her around them. Time to man up.
