Just a funny observation: It really seems to pi$$ her of that I am not the a-hole that she wants me to be.

Example:

She acts strange and distant. I say "Hi, what a beautiful day outside."

She acts like a total b**ch. I say, I'm sorry you're having a tough day.

It seems to bother her. She really seems to want me to be a jerk to justify her actions toward me. It seems to make her more mad when I am not.

An E-mail from a minute ago got me thinking. I sent her a message to let her know I'd be home late tonight. I didn't say why and that seems to bother her (my IC appt). Her response was short and snippy, so I had to send one back..."I hope you're having a great day! smile ---no response from W.

As the great Bugs Bunny said..."Ain't I a stinker?"

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.