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[RedSoxFan]

Let it go. One way to catch a monkey is to put a nut in a box with a hole in it big enough for the monkeys hand to go thru and small enough that the monkeys fist won't come out while clutching the nut. The monkey won't let go and then it's doomed to be a captive. Squeezing the nut harder and pulling with all it's might won't work. To be free all the monkey has to do is let go.

For me, I just don't get how to exist in a space where I let it all go + move on with my life + work to save my marriage. These things seem irreconcilably opposed.