In fact, several folks told me after xH walked out that I need to focus on losing a few lbs because I've "let myself go."
Was it "folks" that told you that or your women "friends." I'm with SP, you gals have no idea what men find attractive.
no, actually it was a few guys--separately--who told me that. And they were straight. And you know, at this point, I for one have no idea what men find attractive! Don't mean to hijack, but perhaps several of us would appreciate some enlightenment.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
