Well, after I said I was not going to contact him all week, I ended up calling him because I needed to ask him a question about the house. I had texted him the night before asking if he was awake and about hour later he said he was in bed and why? Well I never responded, so when I called last night, he has if I had needed something. I told him I had talked to my dad and was just upset and needed someone to talk to. (He knows about the estranged R with my dad)He asked me what he said and I just went into little detail and left it at that, just saying I just needed someone to talk to about it.

Then I told him he had mail and a few other things, and then asked if he still planned on picking me up on Sunday or if I should make other arrangements and he said he would pick me up. He asked when I was leaving and I told him Thursday.

Thanked him for his help and said goodbye. Simple convo, yet it left me feeling more positive. Not sure what it did for him if anything, but I felt better!

Now will see if I can go the rest of the week without any contact. He knows that where I am going (a seminar for work) that my friend is no longer going to be there, so just wonder if hes wondering who I will be hanging out with then.