I'm following your sitch with great interest because it's very similar to mine. I am also at the end of my rope, and ready to just move on. Maybe it'll make my W come around, who knows? I know I can't keep going on like I have been, and if that means my M is over, then so be it.
You've mentioned in the past that your W continually brought up your behavior from long ago as justification for her actions. My W is doing the same thing. Do you mind if I ask what is it you did that she can't let go of? What was your response to her? Sure seems like she's willing to let it go now!
