Just want my H back

[GoBison]

Time to be tough with him hhh. Don't let him walk all over you. If the M is over it is over. Advice that I got was that being tough with the D and not letting my W do whatever she wanted and take whatever will not have any effect on whether or not she comes home. In fact if I do stand up for myself it will be better for both of us. Be tough with your H don't have to me mean or anything just don't make it easy on him and make sure that you are fair to him and most importantly to yourself. The D can't look all sunny to him and he will have to have consequences for ending the M.