[quote=hhh]Thanks guys for the vote of confidence. I get yet another text this morning asking what my schedule is like this week. He clearly wants to talk...since he's now back on the east coast I think he wants to come get his remaining furniture, or have 'the talk'.. but trying not to jump to conclusions. will go out for a run to clear my head before i call him later.
it's weird how no contact for weeks and then when he wants to talk he's very persistent about it. why does he think i will just drop everything when he wants to talk, yet not answer me for weeks in the past when i wanted to communicate? and then if i set boundaries or say i'm busy, he gets kinda nasty. typical wWAS behavior, i guess./quote] You can definitely do this! Don't jump to conclusions and no mind reading. You're a busy person with a schedule and a life. Busy people send short text messages. How about:
Very busy week. What's up?
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09