One other thing..he said last night "well we've gotta figure out what to do w stuff in the apt.." interesting b/c months ago he told me he didn't want anything, I could have everything (I bought most all of it). He seems eager for me to move too. I'm afraid he might take a nasty turn and start insisting on things...he moved out, what right does he have to stuff? (Not that I want all of it anyway, but he can't just prance in and decide he wants half our furniture at this point!)