Her friend sent another co-worker to pick her up here and then I suppose friend took her to her house. My wife did not drive.
Just got a text from wife saying "morning. you were trying to call me last night". I simply replied "that was before I came home". And then she texted asking how our d18 is. I responded with "only saw her for a few minutes - can't really tell regardless' and that ended the textversation.
Right now, I don't even want to deal with my wife at all. The "I hate you" makes me realize this is all futile. I want to wave a magic wand and have the divorce and all of this end and start my new life. Maybe I will feel differently tomorrow.
Either way, I think minimal contact - only when initiated by my wife - is the best idea now.
Just in case, I wake up tomorrow and still want to bust this thing - and ideas on what to do at this point? Time to go dark? Or????