All of that takes a lot of time. I think you have to back off and let that relationship run it's course.
How do you/I do that Stronger? I see how Strong you are and what you've accomplished. Every day I think about her with OM and my heart just hurts. Even if she agreed to reconcile I wonder if I could? It's one thing if she stopped seeing OM. But it just keeps going. How much damage is being done every single day like this? I'm not even sure if I should have agreed to stop hassling her about seeing OM in exchange for holding off on D. Is that love? is that strength? or is it cowardice? Why would she even agree to it? Probably because she doesn't want the hassle or the financial burden. Maybe I should put more pressure on.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
