Actually (and I don't mean this unkindly), it's more like you are losing control of your feelings, period.

Was there anything the W did that set you off on that email?

Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.