doesn't seem to me she's moving out. When my H moved out, he stormed out and wouldn't even be in the same room with me for over a month. Let alone ML? Please. She's had a change of heart. She's not going through with it.
So you either wait it out and watch her NOT LEAVE or you CONFRONT and say basically "I don't want to feel mind-f***ed any more." If you are leaving, I want a date. IF you are not, do not bring it up again."
Seems she was just trying to get a reaction out of you.
The more I go through this with her, the more I think there's MLC involved. The movies she's watched, the "life path" talk, the conversations we've had, the ups and downs we've gone through.
Logically I don't want her to go. I know it's what's best. In a weird way though, I almost would welcome the change. (easier to say now, but I am sure I would not REALLY want to see her go)
She's been back in her room the past two nights. I didn't invite her in though. I've made no advances. No hugs, no kisses. I didn't tell her that she was welcome to come in either. I'm just going with her flow. Should I invite her in?
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
