Partner left after 9 yrs - 18months on, reunited !

[kat727]

Good for you, both of you. Now let all of that soak in and have a wonderful holiday!! Really with him now being even more aware, I am sure he will try not to fall into those bouts again. Just keep on working together.

I think when you get depressed it happens so gradually that people that are around all the time may not ever see how severe it has become. Keep allowing for open conversation and when he see him getting down, don't take it all on yourself to make it better, but allow him to see that he needs some help.

Thanks for your suggestion. I might look that up.

hugs, kat