New home, new beginnings

[transformer]

Julia, You're asking yourself so many good questions. Just trust your heart and keep evolving. You are growing so beautifully!

I always secretly kind of wanted to live in a dolls' house Your cottage sounds so lovely.

T

[Eskimo Nell]

Hi JCJ
Just checking by and wanted to invite you to take a look at my latest ... H has been in touch.

Would really appreciate your ten-penneth, if you have the inclination!!

Thanks ((hugs))

[bonnyh]

Hi JCJ

Difficult questions. Take time to think hard about the answers. You’ve got time. And who knows in the meantime prince charming may well come along and knock your socks off and the decision will be made.

[JCJ]

Thanks guys, it is difficult but I feel I am moving forward.

Just seen some pics on FB of h and ow on holiday. It actually didn't upset me, I just felt mildly insulted that he dumped me for that. She looks a right state, as does he. So unattractive. I even hesitate to call her ow anymore now as that to me implies there is some kind of competition. Without wanting to come across as conceited, there is no competition

I needed to see that! If I had lost respect for him before, I have lost even more now.

[AliSuddenly]

Time to give up then Julia? You dont sound like you love him anymore. And if he is freely posting pics of her and him on holiday having fun, he appears to have moved on, sadly.

I know you have completed on the house, but did he ever mention the D again, or would it be down to you to file? (seems to be the norm on the boards)

Also, looks arent everything. I saw pictures of helen and was left feeling insecure as she was actually quite attractive..but then she was very unenlightened, insensitive, moody and shouted at him alot - all very unnattractive qualities.
xxx

[JCJ]

He didn't post any, he is still trying to hide them. She tagged him.

I'm not going to rush, I need to make sure this is right. I do love him, I have just lost respect for him. I have to make sure it is the right choice. I think going away in January will help to get things straight.

And yes, I will have to be the one to file methinks. Adultery as we agreed together a few months ago and she will be named.

(((Ali)))

edit: She is coarse, lacks any decorum and, by all accounts, is a bit thick. Nice catch.

[MsMelancoly]

Pppssssssttt, retracht the nails ((Julia))) - or not!

Are you in the don't give a sh*t type of mood about your H? Cuz, I have been in that mood for the past 4 days or so towards my xh. Just want to say p*ss off. And so it shall be for now.

[MichelleLT]

Pppssssssttt, retracht the nails ((Julia))) - or not!

LOL!

The new house arrangement sounds lovely. Glad Maple is enjoying it!

[dolphin_05]

Hey Julia,

Just reading and keeping up and saying hi.

Cas

[JCJ]

(((MsM, Michelle, Cas)))

Yeah MsM, I think that is exactly how I feel about him at the moment, he can p*ss off. I'm not sure how I'll feel if he makes contact again, I guess time will tell.

I don't know if I mentioned or not that the pics of him on holiday on FB were along the freedom trail in Boston, that was one of the things we did on honeymoon. Some of the pics I/ we have are of the exact same places. Seriously, the world is a big place. I have trouble understanding why he would choose to go there and do that, but then I have trouble understanding a lot of things he does... still, on the plus side I won't have been forgotten but still, odd.

I had my first fencing lesson last night. It was so much fun and really good exercise. We were working on foot work last night but next week I get to brandish a sword, it's so exciting!