...and OP's are usually just distractions. They can't measure up to the person the spouse was/is married to. They only seem to by comparison. If we are giving the message that hey, we are potentially out of here, suddenly the OP is not compared to us and may not look so great. When it's not getting a reaction, it's way more useless.
Excellent point Hope. And I hope you remember that the next time you are tempted to worry about whether you measure up to your H's OW or not because we know she doesn't measure up to you!
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________
