I'm new wondering if this works...

[BigJohn]

Even in WAW mode, W could not help but notice - even when she insisted that her A with OM and lack of connection with me had "nothing to do with physical attraction or looks". I liked the distraction, the goals of getting immensely strong and feeling good, the adrenaline rush. When her colleagues and friends did the usual mild flirting at social events, and commented how hot her H was, even asking if they could loan me for hen parties, I knew it unsettled her.

Deep,

Got the same thing going in my sitch with the looks and comments from other women and am sensing the same reaction from my W. Despite her wacko behavior, I've been coming to the same conclusion regarding the physical attraction my W has for me. I don't think that is so easy for the WAWs to turn off. In my case, my W goes out of her way not to see me nude, partially nude or even when I'm nicely dressed.

Now that you are back with your W, has she confirmed that those feelings of attraction for you never went away?

P.S.- Sorry for the hijack Hope. Deep has me curious here.